OH WOW!! I AM IN LOVE!! WAKY WAKY!!! TIME FOR A REALITY CHECK!!

Oh so… You see… Everyone has a point in life when they just see a glimpse of that “Special Someone” and feel like…. Oh My God! It’s got to be him/her. The perfect one, meant for a lifetime. And all of a sudden even nature is with you. Everytime you think of this person you co-incidentally dash into eachother! And your feelings, emotions or whatever just gets stronger and stronger. You start living in a world of complete fantasy and imagination. Everything in life seems to be right! (Including a song that suddenly becomes your all time favourite because you start relating it to your present situation   )
And finally you proclaim inside your mind…. Yes!! I am Love
Is this what we really call Love? Well not our fault.. That’s how we are shown about what people in love are supposed to feel . Our concept of “Love” is just a goody goody image which is only an illusion. Of course the first step in love is to get attracted towards a person. But is that it? Just starting to like the person, fantasize about a happy future that you are going to have, the romance that you will have in life….

Well! This is a wake-up call for all those stupid crazy emotional fools like me to have a reality check.
Sorry for being a cynic  But I am going to ask all of these lovers to be a little REAL including me  (Especially after so many instances…..)
I am not against Love. I believe in it. It is what makes the world worth living. However, true love is a very strong and lifelong commitment. Love is not just a word; it is a deep desire which can change lives of people. True love can only create a beautiful identity. The day you feel a sense of transformation- where you decide to quit your bad habits and become a better person- That’s when you understand the power of True Love.
And before you get any other thoughts ask the most important question to yourself… “Are you ready to accept the person you love with all the qualities that he/she has?” Only if the answer is “Yes”- Go ahead and think of taking your relationship ahead or else Move on.
To be very honest this is the most difficult part because most of us are under the impression that the person will change with time. That’s the biggest notion. First things first if you want the person to change then you don’t love the person you are just attracted by the personality. Love is about acceptance, sacrifice and patience to be with eachother for a lifetime. Of course passion and romance are a part- but they are just one part. Real life is beyond the things we watch on our Television and read in books.
So ladies and gentlemen out there… falling in and out of love…. Think twice and go for a relationship which complements you and most of all doesn’t leave a space in your heart for anyother person ever so that we all have stronger and everlasting relationships.
Life is not about the number of people whom you have known; it is about the ones who have made it lively and worth living!!

RELATIONSHIPS WILL BE THE BEST PART IN OUR LIFE ONLY IF WE RESPECT EACHOTHER AS HUMANS!

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