RELATIONSHIPS - A BEAUTIFUL PART OF LIFE.

FAMILY, FRIENDS, COLLEAGUES - Some of the important bonds of human race to move ahead in life. All these “Relationships” are important for every individual to survive. They help us to live happily and cope up with the daily problems. We often see people saying that a ‘RELATIONSHIP’ is easy to form but very difficult to maintain. Is it true? Is it really difficult to maintain a relationship? Does a relationship always needs to be looked after and taken care of? Today amidst a busy lifestyle everyone is losing interest towards forming good relations. We find more and more break-ups in relations. It has only become an Obligation.
Is a hectic schedule and busy working lifestyle the only reason behind the differences between two individuals? Or is it that people these days give more importance to their own space. Perhaps that’s why most of them want to stay alone. Has relationship lost all its charm? If yes then why? Is it not possible to try and make a relationship beautiful and long lasting? But the million dollar question would be HOW?
In today’s society we see most of the couples working to make both ends meet. This indeed, is the best way to maintain a healthy married life. SHARING EACH OTHER’s RESPONSIBILITY- is the first step of a good bonding. But then what happens once they are back home from work. They are so exhausted that they eat, drink and then go to sleep. Even if there’s time to talk they talk about the day and what happened in the office. That’s where the problem lies. Is that the only topic to be discussed? No. When we say COMMUNICATION IN A RELATIONSHIP, it does not mean to discuss our daily chores. It means to talk about EACHOTHER.
Most of you may think that what I am saying is a bit impractical. But I don’t think so. It’s just a matter of trying once and making it a habit so that both of them feel good about coming back ‘HOME’ from ‘WORK’. Even after coming back if you want to discuss about work then why not meet outside? Mixing of professional and personal life is a major problem. There has to be a difference between them and both should be kept poles apart or else the end result would be an “IMBALANCE”.
Moreover in other relations like FRIENDS and COLLEAGUES, one needs to think beyond SELFISHNESS and ENJOY BEING IN THE COMPANY of others. There should be a “Sense of TOGETHERNESS” rather than UTILITY. Today people consider socializing as an important thing so that they can utilize their contacts when they need. Perhaps we should get out of this mentality and be happy to have different kind of people around us and live in unity so that there is nothing left to complain about.
If we need to achieve a sense of satisfaction from every relationship, an “EFFORT” needs to be made from every individual to make it successful. An Effort -
To Realize each other’s IMPORTANCE,
to be Empathetic,
to be Loving,
to be Appreciating,
to be Tolerant,
to be Interactive,
to be Open-minded,
to be Negotiating,
to be Sharing,
to be Honest with each other,
to be Indulgent,
and last but not the least,
having a desire to make it Permanent.
A relationship makes us complete and makes life ‘MAGNIFICIENT’.